The following link is a teaching by Ralph Martin  with Peter Herbek on why everyone should receive the baptism in the Holy Spirit. 

Video on Baptism in the Holy Spirit
The baptism in the Holy Spirit is an awakening of the spiritual graces already received at baptism and Confirmation. The recipient simply asks God to bring to life this power of the Holy Spirit.  God won't force Himself on anyone.  We need to personally make this request. But we also need to start living a Spirit-filled life:  repentence of sin, familiarity with Scripture, regular prayer, and living a life of holiness.  This becomes easier with the fellowhip of others who have had this experience.  A good place for this fellowship, at least initially, is a Catholic charismatic prayer meeting.   It's also helpful to make a Life in the Spirit Seminar. 

At   a charismatic prayer meeting and a Life in the Spirit Seminar  you can learn about the  gifts of the Holy Spirit.  In addition to the gifts of Isaiah 11:2-3 that we're often taught in Confirmation class, there's also the charismatic gifts that St. Paul mentions.  In Romans 12:6-8  there's the gifts of prophecy, serving, teaching, encouragement, giving, leadeship and mercy.  In 1 Corinthians 12:8-10 we have wisdom, knowledge, faith, healing, miracles, the discernment of spirits, tongues and the interpretation of tongues.  In Ephesians 4:11 he lists the gifts of apostles, evangelists, and pastors.    These aren't all the gifts of the Holy Spirit there are, just those Paul saw active in his day.  Indeed, God can invent a gift at a moment's notice.  What is more important than the gifts, though, is the awareness of God's love and a deepened love for God.

Some of the effects of the baptism in the Holy Spirit are:

• a deepening awareness of the presence and love of God
• a growth of intimacy with God in prayer
• a hunger for God's word and the sacraments
• a love for the Church
• a new power and desire to witness
• a growth in the fruit of the Spirit ...peace, love, joy (Ephesians 5:22.)
• manifestations of the charismatic gifts such as the gift of tongues
• and experience of the guidance and promptings of the Holy Spirit
• an awareness of the reality of spiritual warfare
• a call to purification and holiness
• a desire for Christian unity
• a call to serve the needs of others. 

(This list comes from the book As By A New Pentecost, by Patti Gallagher Mansfield, page 161.)

In an address Pope Francis gave to leaders of  the Catholic Charismatic Renewal on  June 8, 2019, he said
"You asked me to tell you what the Pope and the Church expect from...the entire Charismatic Renewal...I expect this movement... to share baptism in the Holy Spirit with everyone in the Church.  It is the grace you have received.  Share it!  Don't keep it to yourselves! We should be following his advice and encouraging others to do likewise!